More Clarity

Clarity as a process, what's coming up, top sellers & more

Mar 08, 2026

Preview of some content coming this week! Blouse is under $50 and the bag is not. But it lovely!

It’s been a busy but quiet weekend after a really rough week day job wise. Dougie was spending a few days in Florida golfing with a buddy, and we’re celebrating his birthday tonight!

I did send a round up of our weekend at Rosemary Beach. If you missed it, read it here.

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Nanette

Sweetfringebenefit of the week

Each week I find the good, the sweet in a moment or season that is hard, challenging, nasty or difficult.

It wasn’t one of my best weeks.

For a long time I was resentful when someone asked me when I was going to “retire.” I felt like I had just gotten started. Staying home with my children for 17 years and then re-entering the workforce was not easy. It’s something I’m was proud of. I’m still proud of. It was hard. But I did it.

It wasn’t a career I really wanted. I don’t love accounting. But I found that I was good at seeing the big picture and managing processes. And as time went on, I gained more responsibility and growth.

Its complicated. Without giving too many details, I actually didn’t think I’d be working still. My company was acquired almost 7 years ago and never thought they’d still be following the same silo’d process. But here I am. And now I have decisions to make.

I want it to be a decision and not a knee jerk reaction to a really bad week. But this week is evidence that I’m collecting to move forward.

And, I wouldn’t look at it as retirement. It would be resigning. Because I’ve found my real passion.

Inspiring women to find the good, the sweet, in each changing season. So that’s what I’ll do here. Because this past week was full of lots of “nasties” of a mini-season. Disappointment in myself, frustration with others, anxiousness in the lack of control, and wanting to do so many other things.

That’s what I hear from many out there that decide it’s time. There’s other things you want to do, and can’t do them because of the job.

This week’s Sweetfringebenefit is more clarity. Like Dougie told me, “you’re getting closer.” He respects my decision. It’s one I have to be able to sleep with. Biggest hurdle is healthcare, but then there’s my loyalty to a co-worker and a process. So, if you have any advice? Do pass it along. Because for me, clarity takes time.

But I know I’m going in the right direction. Are you retired? Do you have date? What will you do with your time?

What I wore this week

A few outfits from this week. Tap on the photo and you’ll be directed to my LTK with links to the entire outfit. I’ve added a few direct links under each photo as well.

A few favorite outfits from this week. Looks like there’s a color theme!

Left: Poplin dress, pink sneakers (code NANETTE20 20% off) and sweater

Center: Denim popover & khackis (great sale right now)

Right: Track stripe jeans (found fully stocked 2-16, I size down) sky blue cotton sweater

The 4 top sellers from this past week

Left: Oxford blouse with an attitude ( grosgrain ribbon detail down the side & back)

Left Center: Target sweater, swimsuit & gauze pants

Right Center: Denim top & pink stretch twill pants

Right: Linen pants, chambray blouse & metallic sweater

A few sales and newness worth mentioning…

I provide links to sales that I’m shopping and think you’ll want to as well. I do make a small commission (called affiliate commission) if you make a purchase through my links at no additional cost. The brand pays for it, think of it as coming out of their marketing budget.

Thought I’d drop a few links to what I’m excited about and loving…

Anthropologie 20% off almost everything with my code NANETTE20 This new Somerset dress print is beautiful and these jeans are on my top 10 list of what I’d rebuy in my closet. Shop all my Anthropologie outfits here.
Allie & Bess Power Hour from 8-9 PM CST tonight ONLY (Sunday) 40% off sitewide code SPRING excludes the “Catherine” bracelet but everything else is a go! Check out the Newport collection. Lots of blues. So pretty! The mixed metal hoops are my most worn earring lately. You can stock your cart as soon as you see this are check out at 8 PM CST.
Dibs Beauty my go to for blush/contouring! Just got a restock. Give it a try! Grab the Glow tour duo stick and the brush. If you love new products, try this pigmented blush! A little goes a long way. They have a fun gift with purchase right now too.
JCrew Factory new arrivals are so good! I love this Parisian graphic tee and this blouse is just darling. On order! And everything is 40% off plus an extra 20% off orders of $125+
Madewell 25% off for icon insiders (its when you give them your email) including my favorite white jeans!
Talbots 40% off 1 item and 30% off entire purchase (might be Sunday only)! I’m eyeing several pieces in their new collection. If you loved the ecru denim dress from loft but needed more length? Try this one from Talbots! I love this light neutral leopard top!
I found this darling $35 dress at Walmart! And do not miss the cutest wedge sandals. Want a subtle barrel jean for under $30? Try these!

Wrapping up

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Have a great week!